Hello, my name is James, and I’m an alcoholic. [ group chimes in with “hi james” ] JUST KIDDING!! That just reminds me of one of those stereotypical AA meetings where I can imagine one introducing themselves in such a way, so I thought I’d go with it. Hey, I figured it was much better than saying I was an ADHD chipmunk hopped up on speed, chasing it with double espressos! I truly believe that life is too short to be serious all the time (though I do have that side of me), so I like to go out, have fun, and laugh whenever I can. Anything can be fun if you are with the right people! Often times I’ll even laugh at myself and the silly things I have done. I do consider myself to have a great sense of humor, and connect easily with those who value the same.

Once you get to know me, you’ll realize that I’m very comfortable with who I am and what I have achieved in my life, but I don’t advertise it in a cocky way. I’m really not out to impress anyone nor is there anything in my life to hide, so there are no smoke and mirrors. Simply put, I am me, nothing less and nothing more. There are no regrets in my life, and I feel as though I’ve done well thus far. I know what I am looking for, where I have been, where I am going, and am well on my way to achieving my dreams. I never give up, as failure is typically not an option. But I do realize it’s ok to fail so long as something is learned from it. To me, the most important things in life are family and friends. I'm grateful for all the special people in my life who have helped me become the person that I am today. I’m a strong person, while still a teddy bear underneath (if you care enough to find him).  I’m a good listener with a big heart, and I’m not afraid to show my feelings or admit when I’m wrong.

These days, it seems that everyone is in such a hurry to do nothing. All too often this hustle and bustle comes at the expense of overlooking the smaller, yet more valuable things in life. I love to take time and enjoy those simple things, and often find myself stepping back to really appreciate everything around me that is so easily taken for granted.

As a fan of intellectual intercourse, I can certainly hold my own in just about any conversation. Often I pride myself in showing people new ways of looking at things. Much enjoyment is found exploring endless depths of conversations, letting imaginations run wild in dreams, while respecting reality as it is. Rarely am I afraid to communicate my thoughts, opinions, or feelings, however I am always careful to be respectful and accepting of those belonging to others.

In my spare time I enjoy: art, photography, teaching, helping others understand life, outdoors, music, learning, experiencing new things, exploring, rollerblading, skiing, researching, reading, cooking for others, billiards/pool, darts, cards, golf, having fun of any sorts, and most importantly… making people smile. :o)

Something that forever drives me is this concept: “To be or not to be” is not the question. The question is “can you be” when you die and shake hands with the person you “could” have been. Only then, is the answer quite clear.

Making it happen!

j